The Truth About Us and Our Path

When we are conceived in this world, our ego – our mind – our reality – is empty. We know absolutely nothing. The first thing we encounter is the world and the emotions of our mother. That is our entire universe. During the nine months in the womb, we already experience fear, insecurity, tension, and emotions that are not ours but hers – yet for us, they become the first truth. Thus, even before birth, we become emotionally burdened.

Many people, unwanted by their mothers – who hesitated whether to keep the child – are born with a deep inner conviction that they have no place in this world. Even the pain and fear of the mother, caused by our existence, transmit to us only one belief – that we are guilty. There, in the womb, our first guilt is born.

Then comes upbringing. But what does it really teach us? That we are incapable, that we are wrong – and therefore we must be taught “how to be,” so that we can be “right.” There, the model is born that we must meet others’ expectations in order to have a place, to be accepted. The guilt deepens, and we begin to bury ourselves just to be approved of. Gradually, we start to hate ourselves. Because no one can truly validate another.

Once trapped in these beliefs, we spend our entire lives fighting for approval and validation. When we seek a partner, we seek someone for whom we can be “right.” When we seek love, we actually seek approval and validation – living with a hidden self-hatred that we are not good enough. And all our choices – difficulties, failures, self-sabotage – serve to prove our guilt and to punish ourselves for it, but also to teach us.

The mind – the ego – in order to protect us from the unbearable truth, begins to construct beliefs that we love ourselves, that we are beautiful and right. It defends this illusion, even at the cost of others’ lives if necessary. This is the mechanism of the matrix – there are no exceptions for anyone. And precisely this mechanism is our path toward awareness and true acceptance.

Personally, I have never met a person who has truly accepted and loved themselves. Only the illusion of people who believe they have. And those most convinced of it are usually the farthest from it. To truly reach that state, one must have worked through every trauma, every pain, every experience in their life. Almost everyone reading these words will fall into denial and try to prove the opposite, because this truth is not for everyone. Few can bear it.

Yet there is one truth that cannot be avoided: only one person in this world can validate you – yourself. Everyone else is a mirror, but the key to your own worth lies only in your hands.

And this is where the path of true healing begins – to return to that child within you who was hurt, rejected, and blamed, and to give it the love it never received, because no one but you can give it. This is a process that does not happen through thinking, but through experience. In my work – through Tantra, EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques), and Matrix Reimprinting – I guide a person to meet those closed layers of the soul where guilt, shame, and pain reside. There, where the ego falls silent, begins the truth. Because only when you touch what you have suppressed can you fully accept yourself and begin to love yourself truly.

With love and presence,

Aleksandar Danailov

Maitreya

Choose the Light ️